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You already know how fun learning English can be. When learning countless rules and guidelines, there is no need to struggle with boredom. Today, we will&nbsp;enlight you&nbsp;with another critical English topic –&nbsp;gerunds and infinitives, but&nbsp;we will try to make it as easy and exciting as possible. We will explain these two similar parts of speech, help you understand the difference, and provide valuable tips, tricks, and secrets to remember all the rules effortlessly.&nbsp;<h2>Infinitives and Gerunds: Explained</h2>Before starting with examples, you need to know the basic definitions of gerunds and infinitives. Below, you will find a short guide on both these terms with examples of use to avoid misunderstandings in the future. So let's dive deeper into the subject and understand the essential&nbsp;gerunds and infinitives rules.&nbsp;<h3>What is a gerund?</h3>If you were born in a non-English-speaking country, understanding this term can be tricky since not so many languages have it in their vocabulary. However, as previously stated,&nbsp;we will make it as simple as possible. According to&nbsp;<a href="https://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english/gerund">Cambridge Dictionary</a>, a gerund is a noun made from a verb by adding an -ing ending. Does it sound like a bit of nonsense to you? Just keep reading. We promise that you will understand it by the end of the article.&nbsp;So, a gerund is usually a noun that can be a subject, subject complement, direct object, or object of a preposition. It always has the -ing ending and refers to an activity or verbal action. For example, look at these sentences:<ul><li>Swimming is my favorite hobby. (gerund as a subject)</li><li>I don't like&nbsp;smoking. (gerund as a direct object)</li><li>Do you mind me&nbsp;asking you a question? (gerund as an object of a preposition)</li><li>After&nbsp;eating too much, she felt sick. (gerund as a subject complement)</li></ul>As you can see, a gerund can take on different functions in a sentence, which is why it's often confusing for&nbsp;learners. However, remembering a few key things will help you use gerunds correctly.&nbsp;First, a gerund is always a noun, meaning it can be a sentence's subject or object. It can also be used as an adjective (describing word), adverb (action word), or preposition (showing location). Second, a gerund always has an -ing ending. It makes it different from a regular verb, which doesn't have this ending. Finally, a gerund always refers to an activity or verbal action. It means you can use it for physical movements (like walking) or states of being (like being).<h3>What is an infinitive?</h3>An infinitive is a verb that functions as a noun, adjective, or adverb. In English, the most common way to form an infinitive is with the particle "to" followed by the base form of the verb (for example: to eat, to sleep, to run, etc.).There are two types of infinitives in English – full and bare forms. The complete one is typically used when we want to emphasize the purpose or goal of an action, whereas the&nbsp;basic form is more often used for other purposes, such as polite requests or commands. Here are some examples of each:Full form: I wanted to eat something healthy for breakfast.Bare form: Can you please pass the salt?In English, there are several ways to use infinitives. They can be used as nouns, adjectives, or adverbs. Here are some examples:Noun: To err is human.Adjective: That was a brave thing to do.Adverb: He ran quickly to catch the bus.The infinitive can also be used as a modifier. For example, in the sentence "He is the man to talk to if you want to get the job done," the infinitive "to talk" modifies the noun "man." This use of the infinitive is called an infinitive phrase. It typically consists of the infinitive plus any modifiers or objects. Here are some examples: To improve your writing, you should read more. To my surprise, she agreed.&nbsp;As stated, you can use infinitives as nouns, adjectives, or adverbs in a sentence. When used as a noun, the infinitive phrase typically functions as the subject or object of a verb. The infinitive phrase modifies a noun or pronoun when used as an adjective or adverb. And now, when you are acquainted with&nbsp;gerunds and infinitives examples, it's time to move on and understand how to use them.&nbsp;These parts of speech have many differences, and usually, it is easy to understand when you must use an infinitive form and when a gerund is suitable.&nbsp;However, if you are still uncertain about it, don't worry! Below, you will find complete instructions for using gerunds and infinitives. So, please don't waste your time and check it immediately!<h2>How is using the gerund different from using the infinitive?</h2>As we mentioned, gerunds always have the -ing ending and refer to an activity or verbal action. Because of this, you can use them in many ways in a sentence.&nbsp;First, let's look at some of the most common uses for gerunds.<ul><li>As the subject of a sentence. When a gerund is a subject, it is typically followed by a form of the verb "to be" (am, is, are, was, were). For example:&nbsp;</li></ul>Swimming is&nbsp;an excellent exercise.Reading&nbsp;was his favorite hobby.<ul><li>As the object of a sentence. Another common way to use a gerund is as the object of a sentence. Gerunds can be direct objects, indirect objects, or even objects of a preposition. For example:&nbsp;</li></ul>I enjoy swimming. (direct object)&nbsp;They gave&nbsp;reading a try. (indirect object)He's worried about&nbsp;swimming in the ocean. (object of a preposition)<ul><li>After prepositions. As we saw in the example above, we can use gerunds after a preposition. It is another way to use a gerund in English. For example:&nbsp;</li></ul>I'm interested&nbsp;in swimming.&nbsp;We were excited&nbsp;about&nbsp;reading her new book.<ul><li>After certain verbs. A gerund typically follows many common verbs. The most popular words are: stop, enjoy, quit, finish, avoid, deny, recommend, and suggest. For example:&nbsp;</li></ul>I&nbsp;stopped smoking last year.&nbsp;We&nbsp;enjoyed visiting your city.&nbsp;He&nbsp;denied&nbsp;stealing the money.&nbsp;You should&nbsp;avoid eating too much sugar.Just like gerunds, you can use infinitives in various sentences. Here are the most common examples of using the&nbsp;primary form of the verb instead of the form with an -ing ending.&nbsp;<ul><li>After adjectives. You must use an infinitive form when the verb is placed after an adjective. For example:&nbsp;</li></ul>She was happy to see me.&nbsp;I'll be glad to come.&nbsp;<ul><li>To indicate the purpose of the action. Use the infinite when it's answering the questions "For what?", "Why?" For example:&nbsp;</li></ul>We went to the library to read new books.I am going to Paris to visit my&nbsp;granny.<ul><li>After certain verbs. Just like gerunds, infinitives are also used with certain words. This list includes such verbs as agree, promise, wait, want, wish, hope, learn, prepare, ask, choose, decide, fail, etc. For example:&nbsp;</li></ul>I want to see you.&nbsp;She is learning to cook.&nbsp;He asked me to come.&nbsp;<ul><li>After expressions with the modal verb&nbsp;would. Another great indicator of using infinitives.&nbsp;If your sentence contains the modal verb, you must use the basic verb form. For example:&nbsp;</li></ul>I would like to have some cake.&nbsp;I would like to buy a coffee.&nbsp;As you can see, the main difference between a&nbsp;gerund and&nbsp;an infinitive is that you should use them in different sentences, after certain verbs, or when discussing various purposes. And don't worry if it still looks challenging. We are always here to help with all these&nbsp;vital&nbsp;gerund and infinitive rules, so now we also have a solution. Below, you will find our secret tips that can&nbsp;quickly help you remember all the rules and always use gerunds and infinitives correctly in your sentences.<h2>Five simple&nbsp;gerund infinitive tips</h2>To conclude everything mentioned before, we prepared five essential tips to help you quickly understand when to use gerunds and infinitives. Of course, you can always return to these tricks when uncertain about a particular situation. Or you can take a screenshot and check this list whenever you need. So, when do we use this or that part of speech? Please take a look at our five main&nbsp;infinitive gerund rules of thumb.&nbsp;<ol><li>If the word is the subject of the sentence, it is primarily a gerund.&nbsp;For example, in the phrase "Knitting is my hobby," the gerund form of the word knit is the subject. Of course, there is always room for exceptions. Infamous words "to be or not to be – this is the question" show us the subject as an infinitive verb. But it is a somewhat outdated usage, and nowadays, mostly gerunds are sentence subjects.&nbsp;</li><li>If the word follows the adjective, it is usually an infinitive.&nbsp;For example, when you want to describe how happy you are about doing a particular action, you need to start your sentence with the phrase "I am happy to + infinitive." Here are some more examples: I am happy to see you. It is lovely to meet you again.&nbsp;</li><li>If we use the word after certain verbs followed by nouns (or pronouns) that refer to a person, it is an infinitive.&nbsp;If you see the verbs ask, hire, invite, order, remind, warn, teach, etc., followed by nouns or pronouns, you should use the infinitive. Here are some examples: Can you&nbsp;ask&nbsp;her to leave? Please&nbsp;remind me to lock the door. We didn't&nbsp;hire you&nbsp;to watch YouTube.</li><li>If the word follows the preposition, it is a gerund. Look for the prepositions about, for, in, of, on, to, etc. If you see these prepositions before a noun or pronoun, use the gerund. Here are some examples: The best thing&nbsp;about growing up is that you can do whatever you want without permission. Jack is interested&nbsp;in&nbsp;reading.&nbsp;</li><li>If the word is the object of the sentence, it can be both an infinitive and a gerund. It doesn't matter which one you use as long as you are consistent. Here are some examples: I like to swim, OR I like swimming; She prefers to cook by herself, OR She prefers cooking by herself.&nbsp;</li></ol>Those are the main tips you need to remember for further study of English. They are simple but contain all the necessary information to determine whether you need to use gerunds or infinitives. Then, with all this theoretical information, you can check our list of various examples of both parts of speech we've talked about today.&nbsp;<h2>Bonus! The most widespread&nbsp;infinitive and gerund examples in sentences</h2>Native speakers like to use both gerunds and infinitives in their conversations. So if you want to master your skills and become fluent in English, you must also remember how to use them correctly to make them sound natural and suitable. We've made a list of the 30 best&nbsp;gerund and infinitive examples, and we are happy to share them!&nbsp;<ul><li>Infinitive examples:&nbsp;</li></ul>I need your help because there is so much work&nbsp;to do.&nbsp;I like to wake up early. It helps me&nbsp;to stay productive.&nbsp;I need&nbsp;to buy a new phone. Mine is not working anymore.I am happy&nbsp;to see&nbsp;my brother. He is coming next week&nbsp;to invite us to his wedding.I want&nbsp;to remember a complete&nbsp;gerunds and infinitives list on the Promova website. It will help me&nbsp;to master my English.Please remind me&nbsp;to water&nbsp;my plants when we come home.&nbsp;I am excited&nbsp;to ask her on a date!&nbsp;My mother asked me&nbsp;to order some food.&nbsp;I would like&nbsp;to see you.&nbsp;I need you&nbsp;to come here and help me.&nbsp;My boss came to the office to admonish me for being late.I asked her&nbsp;to stop.I want you&nbsp;to follow the rules.&nbsp;I am happy&nbsp;to spend&nbsp;more time with my sister.She told me that she wanted&nbsp;to break up with him.<ul><li>Gerund examples:&nbsp;</li></ul>Following the rules is your responsibility.Breaking up is not always a good idea.Seeing him again was a big mistake.Exercising is a perfect way to become stronger.&nbsp;I am proud of my mum&nbsp;being here.&nbsp;Standing here with you makes me happier.&nbsp;I like&nbsp;skiing with my friends.&nbsp;Learning English has never been easier.&nbsp;Spending a lot of money can make you broke.&nbsp;Reading books and&nbsp;watching&nbsp;TV are the best things you can do at home.&nbsp;It's no use&nbsp;crying&nbsp;over spilled milk.If you want to eat healthily, stop&nbsp;eating junk food.&nbsp;I like&nbsp;cooking more than studying.She is good at&nbsp;singing.&nbsp;I will probably spend the night&nbsp;crying.&nbsp;Those are some common sentences where you can see the best examples of using&nbsp;infinitive and gerund forms. But, of course, there are many more! Most verbs can be infinitives and gerunds, depending on the context. Create a few sentences using both&nbsp;of them about things you like, and share them in the comments section if you want to practice!<h2>Find a complete&nbsp;gerund and infinitive list&nbsp;in the Promova app</h2>Now you see that this topic is not complicated but requires some practice and effort to understand. So if you are not confident that you can handle it alone, you can visit the Promova language learning platform to find help in your studying journey. In addition, you can ask our professional teachers if you don't know where to use a&nbsp;gerund or infinitive.If you want more communication, we've got you covered. You can join a group class to study with friendly students, discuss all the topics you are interested in, and practice together. And if your goal is to strengthen your spelling and speaking skills, don't waste your time and come to our conversational club!&nbsp;For those who want to study alone and do it on the go, Promova has a convenient <a href="https://promova.com/language-learning-app">app</a> available for different devices. You can install it for free, enjoy hundreds of valuable topics, learn new words, and do it whenever and wherever you want! <a href="https://promova.com/">Promova</a> is a perfect choice for students of any experience level, so don't hesitate and&nbsp;check it&nbsp;out yourself!<h2>Conclusion</h2>To sum up, the best way to learn the difference between infinitive and gerund verbs is to practice using them in different contexts. Try creating your own sentences and see how they change depending on which form you use. Also, don't forget to pay attention to verbs that can be both gerunds and infinitives – these can be tricky! 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Everyone makes mistakes. That's a simple but fair truth. Someone can forget their backpacks on the way to school, someone can criticize their teacher who is right behind them, someone can forgive a cheating partner the fifth time, and someone can mess up with English. So let's put it like that, yes, everyone makes mistakes, but the critical thing is to learn from those mistakes.&nbsp;Today we will observe funny English mistakes and recommend how to avoid them. Just remember, you are not alone in this. Toddlers learn how to speak through countless mistakes and laughs from their parents. Only the ones who do nothing never fail. Nonetheless, try to learn from others` mistakes (like from our examples).&nbsp;<h2>Funny English Mistakes: What Might They Be</h2>Even native English speakers and English tutors who should've seen it all before still make mistakes occasionally. The reason is that English is a complex and tricky language. So, mastering your English skills will be a lifelong process since the language transforms with time. But don't get scared; you can always reach a level you need for your trips, job, or educational purposes in adequate time.&nbsp;In this article, we will provide you with examples of funny English mistakes examples from a hilarious Reddit page called Engrish, where people post "Phuck ups in english of any kind!" Also, the author will share with you English fails from her own experience and her surroundings.&nbsp;<h3>Funny Language Mistakes: Typos Edition</h3>First of all, let's figure out what a typo is. A typo, or a typographical error, is a mistake made in the typed or printed text.&nbsp;Typos are the most significant pain in any language. But, let's face it, with the autocorrect function, it is almost unreal to miss the right way of writing a word on your gadgets. So, honestly, you keep up with your version of a word. But, if you think you are smarter than autofill, we have some upsetting news. Most likely, the correct way of writing the word is already on your phone or laptop, just come along, memorize it and pay attention to the writing next time.&nbsp;<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/engrish/comments/y0g9lb/paper_clip/">In this example</a>, you notice a small typo that looks unintentional and innocent. Shadow Bonnie just typed the word&nbsp;like wrong, probably, because of the speed he was writing with. But in the following example, a social media manager made a huge mistake by skipping just one letter. So now everyone is aware of what words they like to use texting with friends. Because it couldn't just appear in autocorrect randomly. That is not how it works.&nbsp;<figure class="image image-style-align-center image_resized" style="width:100%;"><img src="https://strapi-img-bucket.s3.amazonaws.com/Snimok_ekrana_2022_10_13_v_17_48_53_2029ec991c.png" alt="Снимок экрана 2022-10-13 в 17.48.53.png"></figure>Professionals can mess up too. Somehow it even successfully goes through proofreading, or maybe there's no editor on a project. Only one&nbsp;u&nbsp;happens to be in the <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/engrish/comments/y0k0a3/hamburguer/">word&nbsp;hamburger</a>.&nbsp;Are you for real? We hope a kid on a poster is okay.<figure class="image"><img src="https://strapi-img-bucket.s3.amazonaws.com/English_mistake_2_f8639d610a.jpg" alt="English mistake 2"></figure><h3>Funny Spelling Mistakes</h3>Did you know that there are special spelling competitions among kids and adults in the US? That is how crucial English spelling is! In lots of European languages, words are written exactly how they sound. Moreover, one sound is represented only by one letter, like in Spanish or Italian. But such rules don't work in modern English. And why is that?Historically, English is formed from three primary sources: Germanic words, Latin and Greek words, and loanwords from other languages.&nbsp;Germanic words set basic English vocabulary, and the spelling of the terms matched the sounds. An excellent illustration can be such words as&nbsp;a house, hello, eat, anger, head, etc. Through the centuries, "old English" has been evolving, so nowadays, many Germanic words are pronounced differently.&nbsp;In the mid-centuries English language was replenished with Latin and Greek words. It happened due to acts of conquests and the Renaissance epoch. As a result, over 60 percent of English words now have Greek or Latin roots. For instance, photos, automatic, biology, and television have Greek origins; circus, foundation, manicure, and permit come from Latin.&nbsp;Let's go back to the roots of spelling problem-solving for a second. If the word seems complicated for you to spell or you are just unsure if it even exists in English, it is always better to check twice.&nbsp;<a href="https://www.macmillandictionary.com/us/misspells.html">Here are TOP 50 misspellings in English.</a>&nbsp;The author of <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/BoneAppleTea/comments/jfjhc4/please_satanise_your_hands/">this slogan</a> meant to use the word&nbsp;sanitize&nbsp;definition of which is to clean or disinfect. But it transformed into something evil, connected to Satan. Nonetheless, the word with the meaning&nbsp;to make satanic&nbsp;also exists, but it is spelled with&nbsp;z – to satanize.&nbsp;It's all fun and games until someone gets fired.&nbsp;This one isn't even funny. Just fix it! ASAP<figure class="image"><img src="https://strapi-img-bucket.s3.amazonaws.com/english_mistake3_fb8f803358.jpeg" alt="English mistake 3"></figure>The most typical funny spelling mistakes in English refer to homophones. According to Merriam-Webster Dictionary, homophones are words that sound the same but differ in meaning or spelling. People may sincerely believe they've done a good job in writing the word, but then happens something<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/engrish/comments/y07d28/hear/"> like this</a>.Want to see more funny spelling mistakes? Scroll down. But if you are willing to check on what terms you are with English spelling, try these two quizzes:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.macmillandictionary.com/us/learn/language-quizzes/spelling-easy.html">easy level</a> and&nbsp;<a href="https://www.macmillandictionary.com/us/learn/language-quizzes/spelling-hard.html">difficult level</a>.&nbsp;<figure class="image"><img src="https://strapi-img-bucket.s3.amazonaws.com/englishmistake5_484655ef12.jpeg" alt="english mistake 5"></figure><h3>Funny English Pronunciation Mistakes</h3>Many English learners say that pronunciation is the most challenging thing when becoming fluent in English. Trust the author; she has been there.&nbsp;More than a year ago, I started my pronunciation journey with an accent-reduction specialist. My goal was to lose my Slavic accent, gain a standard American accent, and be mistaken for an American girl. But, long story short, I am still working on my American accent because it's not a piece of cake but a work-requiring and time-consuming process.&nbsp;At the start of my studies, my accent reduction specialist told me a story of why she decided to fix her accent and, eventually, became a professional in this. When she was a little girl, around ten years old, she got to another country for vacation with her family. And when she went to reception to ask for sheets change, she mispronounced the word&nbsp;sheet.&nbsp;Instead of a long /i:/ sound, she pronounced it with a short /ɪ/. This is a blog of the language learning app, so we cannot write the word that my accent reduction specialist used when she was a kid, but you got it. It was pure swearing. At first, the hotel staff couldn't understand what the little girl wanted, but then they figured it out. But that one time affected her career future.&nbsp;Unfortunately, I've been in such situations when I was already an adult. Back then, I often mispronounced the word&nbsp;beach, which goes with a long /i:/, with a swearing word that goes with a short /ɪ/ sound. And there are more examples of such funny English pronunciation mistakes.&nbsp;Coke and can't won't sound wrong from you ever again if pronounced correctly. So, don't be in a hurry to learn new English words; pay attention to the transcription.<figure class="media"><div data-oembed-url="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LocxRXGvCAs"><div style="position: relative; padding-bottom: 100%; height: 0; padding-bottom: 56.2493%;"><iframe src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/LocxRXGvCAs" style="position: absolute; width: 100%; height: 100%; top: 0; left: 0;" frameborder="0" allow="autoplay; encrypted-media" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></div></div></figure>&nbsp;Here is a sneak peek of the 50 most mispronounced English words; a complete list you can find on IELTS official website.&nbsp;Almond (/ɑːmənd/)Incorrect: al-muh-nd&nbsp;Correct: ah-muh-nd&nbsp;&nbsp;Chaos (/keɪɒs/)Incorrect: Cha-os&nbsp;Correct: Key-os&nbsp;Jewellery (/dʒuːəlri/)Incorrect: joo-el-er-y&nbsp;Correct: joo-uh l-ree&nbsp;Lingerie (/lænʒəriː/)Incorrect: linger-ee&nbsp;Correct: lahn-zhuh-rey&nbsp;Pseudonym (/sjuːdənɪm/)Incorrect: syoo-duh-nim&nbsp;Correct: sood-n-im&nbsp;Pronunciation of certain words might also vary depending on an accent. As a kid, I studied British English at school, but then I started watching American content, especially on social media, and picked up the American pronunciation of certain words. Because I could operate them both, I had been using both versions of the words confusing for my English-speaking surrounding. Therefore, we recommend you select one English pronunciation and stick with it. Of course, mispronouncing words in the American or British way won't lead to a funny mistake. But some people might tend to correct you. And nobody likes that!<figure class="media"><div data-oembed-url="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F88Ix-sY4zE&amp;t=191s"><div style="position: relative; padding-bottom: 100%; height: 0; padding-bottom: 56.2493%;"><iframe src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/F88Ix-sY4zE" style="position: absolute; width: 100%; height: 100%; top: 0; left: 0;" frameborder="0" allow="autoplay; encrypted-media" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></div></div></figure>When in some situations, and for some native English speakers, an accent from your mother tongue might seem cute, but for you, it might cause lots of misunderstandings. For example, once a character from the tv series Modern Family Gloria, whose native language is Spanish, broke off saying: "Do you know how frustrating it is to have to translate everything in my head before I say it? To have people laugh in my face because I am struggling to find words? Do you even know how smart I am in Spanish?" Needless to say, Gloria struggled with pronunciation a lot.&nbsp;<figure class="media"><div data-oembed-url="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=om9EhbBo1Yc"><div style="position: relative; padding-bottom: 100%; height: 0; padding-bottom: 56.2493%;"><iframe src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/om9EhbBo1Yc" style="position: absolute; width: 100%; height: 100%; top: 0; left: 0;" frameborder="0" allow="autoplay; encrypted-media" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></div></div></figure><h3>Funny English Grammar Mistakes</h3>Funny grammar mistakes are the most common ones just because there are too many things in grammar you can mess up with. So, starting to learn English, you should take care of building solid grammar basics.&nbsp;What can be counted as a grammatical error? Incorrect subject-verb agreement, wrong tense or verb form, incorrect singular/plural agreement, vague pronoun reference, incorrect use of articles, inaccurate or missing prepositions, and possessive apostrophe error. But not all of that can be put as funny grammatical errors. And in this section, we are observing just funny grammar mistakes examples.<figure class="image image-style-align-center image_resized" style="width:50%;"><img src="https://strapi-img-bucket.s3.amazonaws.com/English_Mistakes7_22e91a99a8.jpg" alt="English Mistakes 7"></figure>For whatever reason, a majority of English learners despise articles. In particular, it is challenging to follow English articles – a, an, the – for people whose first language there is no such thing as an article. For instance, in Polish, Ukrainian, Czech, Finnish, etc. It's not funny by itself. But because of that, <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/engrish/comments/y0cmm0/you_are_under_the_rest/">these happened</a>.<h3>Funny English Punctuation Mistakes</h3>Problems with punctuation can become funny grammar errors. That is because there are not so many rules for using punctuation in English. But they were made on purpose, so please, use punctuation marks in your sentences. It can save someone's life!&nbsp;<figure class="image image-style-align-center"><img src="https://strapi-img-bucket.s3.amazonaws.com/Englis_mistake_example6_ae37671aef.jpeg" alt="English mistake example 6"></figure><h3> Funny English Sentence Mistakes</h3>Sometimes when you read something in English or listen to someone speaking in English and can't get a word, it is not your fault. There could be no sense, or a speaker has no English language basics. Honestly, people trust Google Translate more than they should. Here are <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/engrish/comments/xyjm31/its_important_to_think_still_to_what_you_are/">some proofs</a>.&nbsp;What deserves special attention are <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/engrish/comments/xyyomf/steps_up_a_massage_parlor/">poor translations</a> of Asian signs.Find more in <a href="https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMFj4868L/ ">the video</a>.&nbsp;<h2>How Can Promova Help You Avoid Mistakes in Your English?</h2>The best thing about our platform Promova is that you can practice every aspect of English learning: grammar, writing, listening, speaking, reading, vocabulary, and pronunciation in the most convenient way for you. Plus, the whole learning process will be personalized!&nbsp;With flashcards and videos in the Promova app, you can learn new words, memorize their correct spelling and listen to the proper pronunciation. Moreover, you can improve your grammar with quick and engaging games and video explanations. There is even a short course called Common Mistakes and Ways to Avoid Them. You can start from there.&nbsp;Besides, you can work on your English at Promova group classes. It will bring you a sense of involvement with like-minded people who are also learning. It means that sometimes they can fail too, and you shouldn't worry about making mistakes.&nbsp;For some people, the most beneficial option would be to take Promova individual classes. With them, you can focus only on your personal goals because a tutor will create a plan based on your strengths and weaknesses. Perhaps it is the best way to reduce the accent and make it neutral or pick up American, British or Australian.&nbsp;In addition, you can consolidate your skills in Conversation Club. Many new friends from all over the world are waiting for you to join them.&nbsp;<h2>Conclusion</h2>It was so much fun, right? To sum it up, we would like to remind you that funny English mistakes are inevitable. You cannot know everything, autocorrection on your phone can fail, apps might not be reliable in terms of translation, and you can get tired. That is how people make mistakes in using language. But the crucial thing is to keep going with your English learning process. If someone corrects your mistakes, try not to get offended and learn from others` experiences. And if they make fun of you because of your mistakes, laugh with them because there is nothing to be ashamed of.&nbsp;

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How to Speak English Fluently: 10 Things You Need To Do Each Day

If you learn English as a second language, you might experience anxiety and shyness when communicating with native English speakers. It is perfectly normal! Many language learners feel the same way. The good news is that you can do a few things to become&nbsp;confident in speaking English – you just need time, practice, and patience. Keep reading this article to learn how to boost your confidence and improve your communication skills. We’ll give you some practical tips that you can use right away.<h2>Why Is&nbsp;Confidence in English Important?</h2>Before we jump into practical advice, let’s take a step back and consider why building confidence is so important. After all, you might wonder if becoming confident in your English skills is vital. The answer is yes! Here are some of the benefits that you can enjoy by boosting your confidence:<ul><li>You’ll be able to communicate more effectively. It means sharing your ideas and thoughts more clearly. As a result, you’ll be better understood by native English speakers. In turn, it will help you develop professional and personal relationships.</li><li>You’ll feel more comfortable in social situations. You might avoid socializing altogether if you’re&nbsp;shy in speaking English. However, by building your confidence, you can start to enjoy socializing in English – whether at a party, meeting new people, or networking.</li><li>You’ll be able to learn and grow. If you’re not confident in your English skills, you might be afraid to make mistakes. As a result, you might avoid speaking and writing altogether. However, making mistakes is essential for learning any language, so pushing yourself out of your comfort zone is important. By doing so, you can continue to improve your English skills and become more confident along the way.</li></ul>In short, confidence is critical when speaking English – and you can enjoy plenty of benefits by boosting your confidence. Now let’s take a look at some practical tips that you can use to improve your communication skills.<h2>Top 9 Tricks to&nbsp;Speak English with Confidence</h2>Now that you clearly understand what confidence is and why it’s important, let’s talk about how you can improve your confidence when speaking English. You can do many things, but we’ll focus on nine effective ways to help you speak&nbsp;English confidently in any situation. You can use these tricks daily and when preparing for important exams or interviews – they will work in any case!<h3>Stay Calm, Breathe, and Speak Slowly</h3>The first step on&nbsp;how to gain confidence in speaking is controlling your nerves. We all get nervous when speaking a foreign language or doing something new. The key is not to obsess over your mistakes and relax as much as possible. One way to stay calm is by focusing on your breathing – take deep, slow breaths through your nose and exhale through your mouth slowly. It will help you relax physically and mentally, so you can focus on the conversation.Another tip is to speak slowly – even if you know the language well, it’s tempting to speak quickly when nervous. However, It often leads to more mistakes and can make you sound unclear. If necessary, practice slowing down by counting to three between each sentence while you talk. It gives you time to think about what you want to say next but also helps reduce filler words like “um” or “ah,” which can make you sound less confident.The good idea is to focus on the present moment. Don’t obsess over past mistakes or worry about what could happen in the future – just focus on the conversation you’re having right now. It can be difficult, but it will help you feel more confident and relaxed.<h3>Use English Whenever You Can</h3>One of the best ways to learn&nbsp;how to speak confidently English is to get as much practice as possible. It may seem obvious, but many language learners forget how important it is to use the language they’re trying to learn. If you only speak English in class or when studying, you might not feel confident using it in real-world conversations.To become more confident, make a point of using English every day – even if it’s just for a few minutes. You can start by greeting people in English when you see them around town or striking up a conversation with a cashier at the store. Once you get used to speaking English daily, you can gradually increase how long and often you use it until it feels natural and effortless.<h3>Work on Your Grammar</h3>One reason many language learners feel insecure is that they’re worried about making mistakes in their grammar. It’s natural to want to sound perfect when speaking a foreign language, but try not to focus too much on this. Instead of agonizing over every little detail, relax and worry about grammar later.Of course, it doesn’t mean you should never study grammar – it’s still essential to learning English! However, don’t let your fear of making mistakes stop you from speaking the language as often as possible. As long as you can communicate your ideas clearly, that’s all that matters.Here are a few websites where you can practice English grammar:<ul><li><a href="https://www.grammarly.com/blog/">Grammarly Blog</a>. It has articles explaining different aspects of English grammar and exercises to help you practice what you’ve learned.</li><li><a href="https://www.englishgrammar101.com/">English Grammar 101</a>.&nbsp;The website provides grammar lessons organized by topic, so you can study the areas you’re struggling with the most.</li><li><a href="https://dictionary.cambridge.org/">Cambridge Dictionary</a>. It has a comprehensive grammar section with clear explanations and examples.</li></ul>Remember that you don’t need perfect grammar to&nbsp;speak English confidently. However, working on your grammar will undoubtedly give a significant boost to your confidence.<h3>Record Yourself Speaking English</h3>One more way to track your progress and become more&nbsp;confident in English is by recording yourself speaking. It can be daunting at first, but it’s a great way to identify areas that need improvement. You can also listen back to recordings to hear how much you’ve improved over time – which can also be encouraging.To get started, find a quiet place where you won’t be interrupted and start talking about any topic for 2-3 minutes. Once you finish, listen back to the recording and note down any errors or words pronounced differently than native speakers. Then, practice saying these words correctly until they sound natural when you speak them aloud.<h3>Use The Shadowing Technique</h3>Shadowing is a great way to improve your understanding of&nbsp;how to speak English fluently and confidently. It involves communicating with native speakers as they talk, imitating their pronunciation, intonation, and speed. It may sound difficult at first, but it’s pretty simple – listen to someone speaking English and repeat what they say aloud.&nbsp;You can shadow any audio recording – podcasts, TV shows, movies, and so on. Make sure you choose a material that is interesting to you so that you don’t get bored while doing it! Additionally, try to find recordings with clear audio quality so that you can understand everything being said clearly.If you want to improve your confidence in speaking English, shadowing is a great technique. It will help you loosen up and&nbsp;speak English confidently without overthinking your grammar or vocabulary.<h3>Watch English-Language Movies and Shows</h3>One great way to become more confident in speaking is by watching English-language movies and TV shows. It can help you to develop a&nbsp;confident English and become better in many aspects of the English language:<ul><li>Pronunciation.&nbsp;You’ll be able to hear how native speakers say certain words and practice imitating their pronunciation.</li><li>Grammar. You’ll see correct grammar usage in various contexts, which can help you understand English grammar rules better.</li><li>Vocabulary.&nbsp;You’ll learn new words and phrases by seeing them used in natural conversation.</li><li>Fluency. By watching English films and TV shows, you’ll better understand how conversational English flows naturally – it can help your speech sound more fluid and confident.</li></ul>And don’t forget that enjoying yourself while doing this activity is essential! Choose shows or movies that you like so that you’ll stay motivated throughout the process. This way, you won’t realize that you’re learning – it will feel like entertainment instead.<h3>Speak English in Casual Situations</h3>It can be challenging to feel&nbsp;confident speaking English if you only ever use the language in formal situations. After all, making mistakes and feeling self-conscious when under pressure is much easier. That’s why it’s essential to find opportunities to practice your English in casual settings.&nbsp;It could mean chatting with friends at an English-language meetup group, talking with native speakers at a bar or restaurant, or even chatting with the cashier at your local grocery store. The conversation is critical here – don’t be afraid to speak as often as possible!You can also try joining online communities for language learners and practicing your English skills with people worldwide. It is an excellent way to improve your confidence since everyone is learning and making mistakes, so you don’t need to feel embarrassed! Just jump into any conversation and give it your best shot.<h3>Practice Speaking with Other Language Learners</h3>One way to gain&nbsp;confidence in speaking is to practice with other language learners. It can be an excellent opportunity to learn from each other and make mistakes in a safe and supportive environment. If you don’t know anyone who’s learning English, there are many online communities that you can join. For example, language exchange websites and apps connect English learners from all over the world so that they can practice together.In addition to practicing with other language learners, you could also try attending meetups for English speakers in your city. This way, you’ll be able to socialize and converse in English with people who are native speakers or near-native level. These events can be an excellent opportunity to build your&nbsp;confidence in speaking while meeting new friends.Don’t be afraid to make mistakes when speaking with others – everyone makes mistakes, and it’s the best way to learn. The more you practice, the more confident you’ll become!<h3>Attend English Classes or Tutoring Sessions</h3>Another great way to learn&nbsp;how to speak more confidently is by attending English classes or tutoring sessions. It can allow you to practice speaking in a low-pressure environment with other learners at a similar level. In addition, your teacher can give you feedback on your progress and help you identify areas that need improvement. If possible, try to find a tutor or class that uses an interactive and communicative approach so that you have plenty of opportunities to speak up and practice your conversation skills.The most important thing is to find a learning method that works for you. If attending English classes doesn’t fit your schedule or budget, plenty of other options are available – such as online courses, apps, and websites. Make sure you use materials appropriate for your skills to advance confidently in your studies.<h2>Want to Improve Your&nbsp;English Confidence? Promova will help</h2>Learning English is a long process, and staying motivated throughout the journey can be challenging. However, by setting realistic goals and breaking down the learning process into manageable steps, you can ensure that you make progress. It will help keep you motivated and develop&nbsp;confident English speaking.<a href="https://promova.com/">Promova</a> is a learning platform designed to help you reach your English-learning goals. We’ll provide you with resources, support, and guidance at every step. With Promova, learning English can be fun, rewarding, and convenient. We provide <a href="https://promova.com/group-lessons">group</a> and <a href="https://promova.com/online-english-tutors">private English classes</a> online so that you can learn from anywhere in the world. Whether you want to know&nbsp;how to speak English confidently or prepare for an important exam, we can help you reach your goals.Our tutors are native English speakers with experience teaching students from around the world. They’re also passionate about helping their students succeed. So, if you want to improve your&nbsp;confidence in speaking, Promova is an excellent option!Some advantages of using Promova to improve your English skills include:<ul><li>Flexible Schedule.&nbsp;We offer <a href="https://promova.com/online-english-classes">classes</a> at different times throughout the day, so you can find a time that works for you. The beauty of learning online is that you can study from anywhere in the world – all you need is a reliable internet connection.</li><li>1-on-1 Classes. We offer group and private classes so that you can choose the best option. If you want individualized attention, private classes are a great option. You can also request a specific tutor that you feel comfortable with.</li><li>Supportive community. Our platform is designed to create a supportive environment for all our students. You’ll be able to connect with other English learners worldwide and share your experiences.</li></ul>If you’re looking for a way to improve your English confidence, why not try Promova? We provide everything you need to reach your language-learning goals.<h2>Conclusion</h2>Confidence is key to speaking any language, but it can be especially challenging for English learners. The good news is that&nbsp;confidence talk comes with practice – the more you speak, the more confident you’ll become. Also, don’t forget to use the tips from this article to help you relax and focus on the conversation. For example, you can take deep breaths, make eye contact, and smile. Remember to be patient with yourself – building confidence in any skill takes time.Finding opportunities to practice English outside the classroom is crucial for confidence-building, too. Consider joining an English conversation group or finding a language exchange partner to practice regularly. And finally, don’t be afraid to make mistakes. Everyone makes them – it’s part of learning a new language. So relax, have fun, and keep&nbsp;speaking in confidence!

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How to Improve Confidence When Speaking English

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How to Improve Confidence When Speaking English. Simple Tricks

Bodhi Ramos is an education writer for Promova. He is passionate about traveling, learning languages, and discovering new cultures.

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We all know that life can be challenging. There are many situations when we need support from other people. And sometimes, we must find the right&nbsp;words of comfort for our friends, family, or others in need. According to the&nbsp;<a href="https://psychiatry.org/patients-families/helping-a-loved-one-cope-with-mental-illness">American Psychiatry Association</a>, supporting someone is not a simple process that requires a lot of empathy and strength. But there are still some pieces of advice you can use depending on the situation.&nbsp;Finding good&nbsp;comforting words may be challenging even in your native language. And situations where you have to support your English-speaking friend may seem insurmountable. But today, we are here to help you. This article provides essential tips and expressions for supporting your loved ones in difficult life circumstances.&nbsp;<h2>Support 101:&nbsp;What to say to someone having a hard time?</h2>Many reasons explain our lack of comforting words depending on the situation. We might be frustrated, confused, or just worried about a person so much that we forget all the right words. It’s okay because we are still people with our feelings and emotions. As mentioned in&nbsp;<a href="https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/emotional-support">The Healthline</a>, support comes in many forms. But if you always want to know&nbsp;what to say to comfort someone, look at this list of general tips that can be helpful in different situations.<ol><li>Try to figure out the reasons.&nbsp;If you are unsure what your friend is worried about, try to find the reasons. However, don’t be too pushy. Instead, ask your loved one gently about what upset them, and offer to fight this reason together.&nbsp;</li><li>Always ask about their feelings. You are almost always wrong if you think you know what your friend is going through and how they are feeling. Every person is unique and has different reactions to the same, at first glance, situations. So, instead of jumping to the wrong conclusions, it is better to ask more often how your interlocutor is feeling.</li><li>Show your attention.&nbsp;When your friend is ready to open up and tell you about their feelings, just let them do it. Listen more than talk, and be as attentive as possible. Put away your phone, turn off the TV, and avoid any other distractions. Instead, make eye contact with the person you are talking to, nod your head, and ask clarifying questions when it’s appropriate.&nbsp;</li><li>Make them believe that their feelings matter.&nbsp;Most people are afraid to share their feelings, even with their closest friends. So, if you’ve decided to support someone, make sure to find&nbsp;comfort words that will encourage them to tell more. Try to use expressions like “It is normal that you feel that way” or “It’s okay to feel like that going through this situation.”</li><li>If you don’t know what to say or do – ask.&nbsp;Not all of us are certified psychologists that can always find the best solutions or&nbsp;encouraging words for a friend going through a tough time. If you really want to help but have no idea what you can do, there is one simple thing – just ask the person what will be the best support for them. Is there anything I can do for you? How can I help you? Do you want me to do something special for you? These are only three of the many questions you can ask.&nbsp;</li><li>Send a&nbsp;comforting message. Of course, you can’t spend 24 hours a day comforting someone. You still have your own life, commitments, family, and other essential things to do. But if you don’t want to leave the person alone, you can always check on them by sending a message or calling them.&nbsp;</li></ol>Those are some general tips that can help you for starters. They can vary depending on the situation, and you have to choose only those that will be helpful specifically for your friend. For example, some people don’t like to discuss their problems and just want to distract themselves by doing something fun. Others, on the other hand, prefer long conversations and sharing their emotions. So, it is important to remember&nbsp;general words of comfort, but use only the ones suitable for your particular situation.<h2>The best comforting words to uplift a sad friend</h2>Today we are going to discuss different situations with various toughness levels. And for starters, let’s talk about that time when nothing tragically happened, but your friend is still feeling blue. After all, we all know what it’s like to mope for no reason. Here are some&nbsp;consoling words you can use in such circumstances:&nbsp;<ul><li>I understand you.&nbsp;</li></ul>Such a simple expression can be life-changing for a sad person. The main reason is that many people may be out of the mood because they are tired, and it seems that no one in this world understands them. So, when you say the opposite, they start to feel valuable and important, and their mood will improve in minutes.&nbsp;<ul><li>I am here for whatever you need.&nbsp;</li></ul>Sometimes people struggle to open up to someone because they don’t know if this is the right person to share their feelings with. Therefore, if you see a friend going through something and think they want to talk about it, you can encourage them using this phrase.&nbsp;<ul><li>I am happy to talk about your feelings with you.&nbsp;</li></ul>These are great&nbsp;comforting words for a friend in need. Such an expression can show a person that you care about them and that their feelings matter to you. Once again, it is a great way to encourage your friend or loved one to share what’s bothering them with you.&nbsp;<ul><li>You can trust me with anything.&nbsp;</li></ul>Another reason why people don’t like to share their feelings is that they fear wrong people will hear some personal information. So, it is necessary for you not only to keep all their secrets but let your friends know they can trust you with everything.&nbsp;<ul><li>I’m always here whenever you are ready.&nbsp;</li></ul>If your friend doesn’t want to discuss their problems, don’t pursue them. Just wait for the right time, and don’t forget to mention that you are ready to help whenever they need you. This expression is perfect for such situations.&nbsp;<h2>Words of support and comfort for someone who just lost their job</h2>Another common situation that can make people sad is getting fired or losing a job. When it happens, most people are not ready and afraid of the uncertainty of their future. That’s when you need to find good&nbsp;words of comfort for a friend who just lost their job. There is what you can say:<ul><li>I know how much this job meant to you, but there is still a silver lining. It is your chance to start over, try something new, and find plenty of other opportunities to set up your life. And you can be sure that I will be here for you whenever you need me.&nbsp;</li></ul>It is an example of a perfect combination of&nbsp;words of comfort and support. Firstly, show the person that you value their feelings and don’t consider job loss a minor event. But you’re still showing some benefits your friends can find from such a situation. And most importantly, you provide support, and your friend knows they can count on you.&nbsp;<ul><li>I know how hard it can be, but I am always here for you. We can make you a new CV together, or forget about the job for some time and distract to other fun things! Do you want to go shopping with me?&nbsp;</li></ul>These are other great&nbsp;comfort words to a friend who’s recently lost the job. Doing something together is a perfect way to shift the focus and lift the mood. This phrase can be helpful when the person is not ready to share their thoughts but still wants to spend time with you.&nbsp;<h2>Comforting sentences for a heartbroken person</h2>Breakup is another situation when we feel terrible and need someone to be here for us. A person who recently ended the relationship is usually vulnerable and even emotionally unstable, so it is vital to find&nbsp;soothing words&nbsp;that will be supportive and not offensive. Take a look at our list of the most valuable examples:<ul><li>It’s okay if you don’t want to do it right now. You don’t always have to pretend that everything is under control. Just let yourself feel this way for some time. And don’t forget that I’m always here to help.&nbsp;</li></ul>Long-term relationships make people think that they know what is waiting for them in the future. They have plans, dreams, and goals and just do everything possible to achieve them. And after a breakup, they usually don’t know what to do because all their plans include their partner. Let them know it’s okay to feel that way, and the right solution will come later. Meanwhile, they need to experience this situation with their friends and family.<ul><li>I understand what you are going through. Remember that such situations are the experience you need to know how strong you are. You can overcome this, and I will be happy to help you.&nbsp;</li></ul>Once again, these are great&nbsp;comforting words for someone who is hurting. You don’t devalue a person’s feelings, and at the same time, show them your support. But, it is essential to find the best time to use this expression. For example, if your friend broke up with their partner an hour ago and came to your house instantly crying, save this phrase for later and hug them.&nbsp;<ul><li>I know that the healing process can take a while. Just don’t stop going; you will see how the pain is going away. It’s okay to feel overwhelmed now, but remember that you are not alone.&nbsp;</li></ul>It is an important&nbsp;message for someone going through a hard time. You show your friend that it’s fine to feel this way and highlight the importance of moving on. The main thing is not to rush them and let them experience the pain at a pace that suits them. For some, it only takes a few days; for others, it may take more than a month to recover.&nbsp;<h2>Words to comfort someone who had a bad day</h2>Imagine this situation – you are late for work, forgot to have your morning coffee, didn’t finish a critical report in time, your boss yelled at you, and you were caught in a terrible downpour on your way home. After such a horrible day, you come home, sit on a couch, and cry. We all know these times when everything looks awful, and it seems like nothing good will ever happen again.&nbsp;We are almost sure that everyone experienced such days at least once. And nothing can better help to deal with them than a friend who knows&nbsp;how to support someone with words. If you want to be that person for your loved ones, take a look at some general phrases you can use to encourage them:<ul><li>It’s okay to feel like that today. Just remember that it won’t last forever.&nbsp;</li></ul>It is an excellent phrase to start a conversation with someone in a bad mood. You show that their feelings are entirely normal, and they don’t have to feel guilty about things like that. And also, you remind them of the transience of destructive emotions. After saying that, you can offer to do something you both like together to distract from feeling blue.&nbsp;<ul><li>You deserve time to relax. Forget about being productive today, and allow yourself to do what you want.&nbsp;</li></ul>Some people are eager to be productive and accomplish hundreds of tasks during the day. But since we are people, not robots, we can’t always do it. However, some friends of ours still force themselves to do something to feel valuable even when they experience a terrible mood. These are the best&nbsp;things to say to someone going through a hard time in such circumstances.&nbsp;<h2>Bonus! “Comforting” words you need to avoid</h2>Those of you who like to watch Keeping Up With The Kardashians probably know the famous phrase, “Kim, there are people that are dying.” It is a perfect example of&nbsp;comforting words you need to avoid. Below, you will find more phrases and actions that can make your friend even more upset.<ul><li>You have a great life. What are you so sad about? There is no reason to feel that way.&nbsp;</li></ul>If you don’t want to lose all your friends, never say this to them. These are terrible consoling words no one actually wants to hear. Such expression devalues the importance of the other person’s problems and instead prohibits feeling sad. And this is not what we need to hear when we are in a bad mood, so avoid such words when supporting someone.&nbsp;<ul><li>You are being selfish. Think about your friends/family/partner – they feel bad when you are around like this.&nbsp;</li></ul>It is another example of how to become a bad friend and hurt someone who’s already struggling. Such a phrase can make a person feel even worse since it makes other people uncomfortable with current emotions. Forget about these words if you want to comfort someone and not offend them.&nbsp;<ul><li>I was also feeling this way and was over it in a few days, so you can do it too.&nbsp;</li></ul>Of course, sharing your own experiences is a good idea, even when you are trying to comfort someone. But you need to remember that it’s not about you. Your friend has another life and reacts differently to the same things. So, please, avoid using such&nbsp;comforting words for a friend who is sad.<ul><li>You are just overreacting. Don’t take it too seriously.&nbsp;</li></ul>Once again, we are all different. Things that look harmless to you can be a tragedy for your friend. Don’t compare everyone to yourself, and don’t devalue the feelings of the person you are trying to comfort. Many other expressions can show genuine support, so remember them and avoid this terrible phrase.&nbsp;<ul><li>People are dying out there.&nbsp;</li></ul>Let’s turn back to this expression we mentioned in the beginning. Even though it is, sadly, a true statement, it is not the words a sad person wants to hear. By using such terms, you’re devaluing your friend’s problem and comparing it to the issues of other people in the world. It is a wrong way to support, and you have to forget about such an expression.&nbsp;<h2>How can Promova help you find the right&nbsp;words to console a friend?</h2>Supporting someone is not simple. You need to control your emotions and choose the words that won’t hurt your interlocutor. If you speak your native language, you can find the best expressions and phrases suitable for a particular situation faster. But if you have to support an English-speaking friend, it is essential to be prepared for it.&nbsp;<a href="https://promova.com/">With the Promova platform</a>, you have several options to choose from that can help you to learn&nbsp;how to comfort someone with words and remember basic consoling expressions and phrases you need to avoid in your conversation. First, you can seek help from <a href="https://promova.com/online-english-tutors">professional tutors</a> – experienced teachers will be happy to assist you in your English-learning journey and teach you everything you need for different life situations. You can choose personal lessons or join a group for more practice.&nbsp;And if you prefer to study alone, you can install a convenient <a href="https://promova.com/language-learning-app">Promova app</a> on your phone or tablet. This application has hundreds of lessons divided by topics. Here you can find out&nbsp;what to text someone going through a hard time, the best comforting words for different circumstances, and much more. So if it is the best option for you, don’t hesitate to install the Promova app immediately!<h2>Conclusion</h2>Now, you know&nbsp;what are some comforting words&nbsp;suitable for various circumstances. Many situations in the lives of your loved ones require your support. So if you want to cheer up someone, encourage them to move on, and share your empathy – use some of the examples we’ve mentioned above. But we certainly wish you would remember these expressions as rarely as possible because there is nothing better than happiness.

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Comforting Words: What to Say in Tough Times

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